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Stop Pitching And Start Priming Your Prospects

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Joel Comm
Joel is a New York Times Best-selling author – focused on cryptocurrency, marketing, social media and online business. An Internet pioneer, Joel has been creating profitable...
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Here’s my take as someone who has sold products, courses, and ideas for decades: sales isn’t won with a smoother pitch. Sales is won before the call. That’s the drum Adam Erhart is beating, and he’s right to hit it hard.

The big idea is simple. If prospects show up cold, you’re already behind. If they arrive warm, you barely need to “sell.” That’s not tricks. That’s smart setup.

What Adam Erhart Gets Right

Erhart argues that buyers sort you fast. You’re either the expert they trust, or another pitch they must endure. He’s blunt about it:

“By the time someone gets on the phone with you, the decision has already been made.”

He didn’t fix this with better charm. He fixed it by engineering what happens before the call. That shift took his close rate from 20% to over 60%. I’ve seen that same arc in my own launches and affiliate promos. Warm traffic outperforms cold traffic, every time.

Robert Cialdini spent decades showing that pre-suasion can swing outcomes by huge margins. Erhart echoes that research with a practical system that flips skeptics into serious buyers.

The Four-Number Combination

Erhart builds a short application that filters and primes. The questions aren’t fluff. They guide the brain into clarity and commitment before you ever speak.

  • “What’s the biggest challenge you’re facing right now with [topic]?”
  • “What have you already tried to fix this?”
  • “If we don’t end up working together, what’s your plan B?”
  • “Describe your business 6 months from now if we nail this.”

Those prompts do three things: they surface pain in the buyer’s words, reveal failed paths, force a sober look at “plan B,” and lock in a vivid outcome. On the call, you mirror their language back.

“You wrote that 6 months from now you want… Let’s talk about what’s standing between where you are and that.”

This isn’t pressure. It’s leadership. You’re not creating urgency. You’re revealing the urgency that was already there.

Proof, Limits, And The Real Lesson

He claims this shift helped him land clients like Google, Amazon, and Meta. The math tracks. Tripling outcomes from the same 20 calls changes a business. And it happens without changing the core offer, price, or you. It changes the sequence.

There are limits. He’s clear that this is best for service providers selling $1,000 to $15,000 with one decision maker. If you sell six-figure deals to buying committees, you’ll need added steps. I agree. In those deals, a strong pre-call brief and consensus mapping are musts.

Still, the core lesson holds across markets: control the setup, win the sale.

My Playbook, In Practice

As someone who has built and scaled online ventures—and sat through too many “So, what do you do?” calls—I’ll add a few moves that play well with Adam’s method.

  • Send a two-minute “what to expect” video after the application. It sets tone and lowers nerves.
  • Include one short case study that mirrors their challenge. Relevance beats volume.
  • On the call, confirm problem, confirm stakes, confirm outcome—then present the plan. Order matters.
  • If they say, “I need to think,” ask, “What will you be weighing?” Get the real objection on the table.

These add-ons keep momentum high without turning you into a bulldozer. Buyers feel led, not pushed.

Why This Works

People trust their own words more than yours. When they write the pain, admit failed fixes, stare at a weak plan B, and picture a better future, they walk into the call aligned. You become the guide, not the beggar.

“Challenge, effort, plan B, vision. Four numbers, right order, and the vault opens itself.”

That’s not hype. That’s design.

Final Thought

Stop hoping your pitch saves you. Pre-frame the win. Add the four questions to your booking flow. Read the answers. Open with their words. Then ask for the decision the smart way: “Based on what you said you want in six months, is this the path to get you there?”

If you sell real value and price it right, you’ll feel the shift fast. And if your offer is weak, fix that first. No combination opens a broken vault.

Do the work before the call. Make the close a formality.

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Joel is a New York Times Best-selling author – focused on cryptocurrency, marketing, social media and online business. An Internet pioneer, Joel has been creating profitable websites, software, products and training since 1995.