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Stop Chasing Clients Build Your Watering Hole

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Joel Comm
Joel is a New York Times Best-selling author – focused on cryptocurrency, marketing, social media and online business. An Internet pioneer, Joel has been creating profitable...
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Cold outreach built many early careers, mine included. But after watching Adam Erhart lay out his “watering hole” method, I’m convinced that chasing is the wrong default. My view is simple: stop acting like a hungry hunter and start acting like the person who owns the resource buyers need. That shift changes pricing power, deal flow, and peace of mind.

The Bold Shift: From Hunter To Owner

Positioning is the real asset. Erhart argues that every cold message chips away at it. I’ve seen the same in crypto, social media, and software launches. The more you chase, the more you signal neediness. That weakens your leverage in every conversation.

“You can’t charge premium prices when you’re the one doing the chasing.”

He frames the fix with a simple image: control the watering hole. Build a place where your ideal clients come to solve a specific problem. Show proof. Make entry clear. Let demand do the talking.

Why This Works Better Than Cold Outreach

The math isn’t pretty for cold work. Erhart points to an average cold email conversion rate of 0.7%. Open rates hover around 27%. That means most messages die unread. Meanwhile, inbound leads convert at 5–10%, and high-intent leads can hit 75–80%. As a founder, I’d rather stack the odds in my favor.

“Inbound leads convert at 5 to 10%… high intent inbound leads… convert at 75 to 80%.”

The deeper truth is the power dynamic. When people come to you, they’re not comparing you to five lookalikes. They’re choosing you for a reason. That makes price, scope, and timelines easier to set.

How To Build Your Own Watering Hole

Erhart’s method isn’t a mystery. It’s a practice. Start where trust already exists. Get real proof. Create authority assets on one channel. Then build simple systems that deliver the promise.

  • Start with warm outreach. Ask for introductions, not favors.
  • Overdeliver for early clients. Turn results into case studies.
  • Pick one channel. Share specific, useful insights, not random tips.
  • Route all content to one action page. Nurture with your best ideas.
  • Tighten your follow-up and onboarding. Systems signal quality.

These steps stack. Each one feeds the next. The result is steady demand and stronger positioning.

What Most People Get Wrong

Scarcity works, but not the fake kind. Erhart makes a key point: the strategy isn’t about acting superior. It’s about being clear, delivering value, and letting the right people opt in.

“Real positioning happens when you genuinely have something valuable… It’s not manipulation, it’s alignment.”

I agree. In crypto circles, I’ve watched hype cycles rise and fall. The creators who last don’t hide access. They ship value, share proof, and set simple gates so the right buyers step forward.

Counterarguments And Why They Fall Short

Yes, cold outreach can work. I’ve landed partnerships that way. But it rarely scales without eroding your status. The time-for-money trade caps growth. And it trains prospects to see you as a vendor, not a partner. That’s a hard frame to escape.

My Takeaways And Extra Advice

I like Erhart’s timeline for the switch. Keep some outreach while your assets grow. Track every lead source. Don’t quit too fast. Consistency beats cleverness.

  • Create one “flagship” guide or mini-course that shows your method end to end.
  • Publish one strong case study per month with clear before-and-after.
  • Add a short pre-qual form. Make prospects show fit.
  • Audit your first seven emails. Cut fluff. Lead with proof and next steps.
  • Measure: channel, message, time-to-close, and lifetime value. Double down on what wins.

And here’s a simple rule I’ve used for years: if a piece of content can’t be repurposed three ways, it’s not focused enough. Turn one idea into a long post, a short video, and an email. Point them to the same destination.

The Line In The Sand

This strategy exposes you, and that’s good. If your offer is shaky, the market will say so fast. Fix the product first. Then build the watering hole. You’ll attract better clients, charge fair prices, and stop selling from your heels.

“You don’t just get better clients. You become a better version of yourself. Calm, in control, respected.”

Final Word

The hunter grind is optional now. Set up one clear path where buyers can find you, see proof, and enter a clean system. Give it three to six months of steady work. Then watch the balance of power change.

My challenge to you: pick one channel, one core offer, and one proof asset. Publish weekly for 12 weeks. Track every lead. If your numbers don’t move, refine the offer, not the volume. Build the watering hole, and let buyers come to drink.

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Joel is a New York Times Best-selling author – focused on cryptocurrency, marketing, social media and online business. An Internet pioneer, Joel has been creating profitable websites, software, products and training since 1995.